did i make a terrible mistake???????
Whenever me and the miss get into it, She always gets very emotional. Im very good at controlling my temper nowadays (broke my hand a few times hittin walls back in high school) so I tell her to either talk to me like a human, or she can leave till shes cooled off. A heated argument never ends, it just gets worse. Just let things cool down, try and talk it out, and if they get heated again, just split off till ya can talk again. It'll either work or it wont, and if it dont, its time to move on. Too many other people in the world to fight to make a relationship work when its pretty much not working anymore.
Those that say it cant be done should say so quietly, so as not to disturb those who are doing it.